"Ms. Phillips, I first want to commend you for taking the time to write your letter about something you feel strongly about. I am sorry that you feel the ban on same-sex marriage violates the idea of equality. However, I want to remind you of the concept of "government of the people, by the people, for the people." Obviously, this is from the Gettysburg Address, but speaks volumes of what our government is to be. Mainly, the government is supposed to reflect what the people want. Case in hand, the people of California shockingly stood up and voted for the ban on same-sex marriage. Hence, the people spoke and it doesn't matter what one liberal judge says about it being constitutional. It is interesting that you use a quote that references the "Creator" to make your argument, since God is clearly the establisher of marriage in the first place and set it forth then as a union between one man and one woman � but that's another letter. I support the ban and applaud the people of California. While I think some sort of civil unions could be accommodated, I think that marriage is off limits. My main gripe is how those on the other side of the issue protest. Invading and disrupting church services and naked bike rides through town only hurt their cause. If you lose a vote, either accept it or move. I accept the recent presidential election results and am preparing to embrace socialism and have practiced throwing my money out of my window as I drive home daily. Sometimes things don't seem equitable, but we have to accept, adapt and move on � just show some class and respect in doing so."
Darrell Woodman
Senior, School of Management
I was really happy that someone had responded to me, even if I didn't agree with his views. Here is what I found out: When wanting to start a dialogue in the newspaper, you need to be pretty offensive so that people feel motivated to write in and argue with you. Unfortunately, I didn't understand this at the time I wrote my letter to the editor. Luckily, Darrel Woodman went ahead and outraged people enough for them to write in. Since his letter arguing with me was posted, the following letters have been in the newspaper. I thought you might like to read them.
"Mr. Woodman, I was honestly disturbed by your logic regarding your argument to accept California's vote to ban gay marriage. You go on to say, "... the people spoke ... If you lose a vote, either accept it or move." To me, this is disturbing. Did the abolitionists of the 19th Century accept the injustices of slavery? Did the activists for women's suffrage just accept the fact that they couldn't vote? Did the civil rights activists of the 1950s and 1960s just accept segregation? Hell, did the Founding Fathers just accept the Stamp Act, the Townshend Acts or the Tea Act? Hell no! Could you imagine what our country would be like if people had the attitude to "accept it or move"? I couldn't imagine anything more American than what the protesters in California are doing, more power to them."
Chris Daisey
Sophomore, College of Education
"This letter is in response to Darrell Woodman, who responded to the ban on gay marriage ("Accept California's vote for ban on gay marriage," Dec. 2). Sorry to burst your religious bubble, but marriages were performed long before the conception of Christianity. Leaders who converted to Christianity and tried to ensure control over the populace and their actions to create solely Christian nations in the Middle Ages made marriage a religiously-controlled event. They had to try many things to control the masses the way they wanted to, which included killing "pagans" (which meant anyone with a difference of opinion from the church) who did not go along with the church's decisions. To marry illegally was very bad for those involved, but before the influence of tyrannical Christian leaders and the religious leaders who were controlled by them, marriage was between two people who loved each other and wanted to be married. Most of the time if the village members agreed upon the marriage, it was seen as a legal, binding marriage. My, how far we've come."
Shannon Oelslager
Senior, College of Liberal Arts
"Dear Mr. Woodman,
I read your letter on Dec. 2 and all I can say is I hope you are just trolling here; but in case you aren't, I would like to point out the huge flaw in your argument. While America is supposed to be "the government of the people �" it is not supposed to be allowed to oppress the minority in doing so. James Madison was famous for his support of the idea of majority rule with minority rights. This means that while the majority can and should guide policy decisions, they cannot decide to take away rights from people in the minority. In short, the minority is to have equal rights with the majority, no ifs, ands or buts about it.
Second, I would like to look at your comment on "god" defining marriage. If the Christian god defines marriage, then what about the billions of non-Christians who get married? Under this definition of marriage, you've pretty much said that only Christian marriages are valid, and considering that would never get passed into law in this day and age, then the argument of god has no place in the matter. Take your fairy tales and go play somewhere else while the big people are talking about serious issues.
Lastly I'd like to call you out on your jab that Obama is a socialist. As someone who understands and agrees with socialism, I am offended. If Obama was a socialist, I wouldn't have felt dirty after I voted. The plain truth is that Obama is a rich capitalist just like every other president we've had. If we ever elected a socialist, we wouldn't be in the crisis we are in now. Instead we have four more years of "free trade" economics and the strife that comes with it."
Dustin Ratliff
Sophomore, College of Liberal Arts
"I would like to thank Darrell Woodman for finally inspiring me to write to this publication. It seems Mr. Woodman is quite confused on how our government works. See, you're under the impression that we're an actual democracy; while it's true to a point, we're actually a democratic republic. Its goal is to make sure all the people get represented and not just an oppressive majority.I'd imagine that if Mr. Woodman had been born 40 years earlier, he'd be making the same comments about African Americans getting civil rights, as the majority was against that as well. It's the government's responsibility to ensure that all people have the same rights. Oh, and the whole civil union thing? Remember that whole separate but equal thing and how well that worked?
I especially loved how Mr. Woodman wants us to sit by content with every decision made by the government as well. There's a reason why we have the right to protest.
Finally, I was unaware that the Christian "god" was the one who created marriage which is interesting as that "god" didn't come around until millenia after people had been getting married. Oh, and thanks for that lovely jam about socialism. I'd just like to ask that as you're protesting (gasp!) by throwing your money at the window, you do it at College Station. We could use the rent money, yo."
Josiah Berry
Junior, College of Technology
"Darrell, your own phrase, "Sometimes things don't seem equitable, but we have to accept adapt and move on�" is in direct contrast with the core values of American government. When something does not seem equitable, it is our own duty to fight for a change. If one side gives up the argument, stands aside and lets the opposition dominate without critique, that is akin to tearing a star off the flag and setting it ablaze. People who don't want California's ban cited in possible future policies in their own state have a right to oppose it. For every cause, there are those who try to help, but are more of an embarrassment; let's not pretend that there has ever been a perfectly civil and by-the-book revolution. However, if "accept it or move" is your approach to things you do not approve of, I highly suggest you consider the case of your disapproval of Phillips' remarks."
Casey Drummer
Freshman, College of Science



















